In the world of learning and development, words matter. Over the years, job titles have shifted to reflect evolving perspectives on how we think about learning: trainers have become talent development specialists or workforce development professionals. Educators have shifted from being instructors to teachers. Today, the growing emphasis is on seeing ourselves as facilitators. A training facilitator’s role is not to lecture, but to make learning easier, smoother, and more impactful by creating space for discovery and growth.
Facilitate (verb): to make (something) easier; to help bring about; to help (something, such as a discussion) run more smoothly and effectively
Why the shift? Because as brain science and educational research evolve, one truth has become clear: the onus of learning is on the learner. We cannot force knowledge into someone else’s brain. Learners must actively participate—seeking, testing, questioning, and connecting—in order to truly learn.
To facilitate is to make learning easier for others. It’s not about supplying answers or doing the work for someone else; it’s about building them up, creating opportunities, and helping them succeed.
Facilitators do this by:
In short, the facilitator’s job isn’t to teach as much as it is to guide.
Being a learner is far from passive. Think about how children naturally learn: they take risks, make mistakes, fall down, and try again. Learning as an adult isn’t much different. Learners must:
Facilitators can open doors, but learners must walk through them.
Sharon Bowman is quick to remind us, “The one doing the most talking does the most learning.”
That means trainers who lecture endlessly are often the ones learning the most—while their participants may disengage. By contrast, excellent facilitators aim to be the guide on the side, not the sage on the stage.
How? By creating space for learners to wrestle with ideas. By prompting discussions, encouraging exploration, and inviting learners to draw conclusions for themselves.
Facilitators—like parents of young adults—often find themselves in the role of helping people “figure it out.” For instance, when my son called from across the country to say his car wouldn’t start, there was nothing I could do. What I could offer was guidance: consider calling AAA, finding a mechanic, or troubleshooting possible issues.
The same applies in classrooms, workshops, or strategy sessions. We can’t always provide the fix, but we can:
The goal is growth, not dependency.
If you’re looking for practical ways to step out of the “sage on the stage” role and into the “guide on the side,” here are a handful of facilitation strategies you can try:
Ask a question. Give learners a moment to jot down their own thoughts, then discuss with a partner before sharing with the larger group. This gives everyone time to reflect and encourages participation from quieter voices.
Post prompts, case studies, or problems around the room. Have participants walk from station to station, adding their thoughts or solutions. They’ll see, build on, and challenge each other’s ideas.
Pull a page from the improvisational world. Build new perspectives by having the first person start a story or explanation with a few words. Then have other jump in and add to that idea with a, “yes, and…” comment. In this activity, no “ifs” or “buts” are allowed!
Present a real or fictional scenario and let learners analyze, debate, and propose solutions. Rather than telling them the “right answer,” encourage them to weigh trade-offs and defend their reasoning. By focusing on a situation that isn’t “real,” participants can safely try out new approaches.
Assign learners to teach a portion of the material to their peers. Not only does it reinforce their understanding, but it also highlights the mantra: the one doing the most talking does the most learning.
Build in time for learners to pause, write, and connect new ideas to their own experiences. This helps with memory encoding and deepens ownership of learning.
Know when it’s time to step away from the content and engage in a conversation about process. Facilitation questions might include: HOW (by what process) can we come to a decision? HOW can we better support each other as move in this new direction? WHAT might inhibit our memory of forward progression?
The key to effective facilitation, as with coaching and debriefing, is asking good questions. Take time to think about what questions will elicit thoughtful reflection and conversation.
Think about the last professional conference you attended. The keynote speakers may have been excellent. You probably jotted down a few golden nuggets. But if you’re like many of us, the most valuable moments were the conversations in hallways, the time away from your desk to reflect, and the chance to reconsider your challenges in a fresh light.
When I look back at my own notes from conferences, I realize they don’t always capture exactly what the presenter said. Instead, they reflect what I thought in response. That’s facilitation at work—creating space for learners to generate their own insights.
“Give a man a fish and you feed him for a day. Teach a man to fish and you feed him for a lifetime.”
This timeless proverb captures the essence of training facilitation. Trainers who give answers may satisfy learners in the short term. Facilitators who build capacity empower learners for a lifetime. Facilitation is about more than teaching; it’s about helping people unlock their own capacity to learn. It’s about shifting from being the expert with all the answers to the partner who guides discovery.
When we step into this role fully, we not only make learning easier—we make it stick.
Wonderful article! Well written. FYI—you may or may not know that an early developer of participatory facilitation methods was the Institute for Cultural Affairs. The USA office is based in Chicago, IL but there are training and facilitation hubs around the country and in many countries around the world. Their “Focused Conversation Method” refined with global input from their late 50’s “Art Form Conversation Method”. It is taught core stance and tool for facilitators, trainers, educators and social change agents as part of their “Technology of Participation” methods and courses. Course info is available at https://www.top-training.net/, http://www.ica-usa.org and stories about their work is at https://icaglobalarchives.org. ICA/ToP has been encouraging facilitators and trainers to use toys at their events at least since 1992 when I became involved. I’ve shared information about your resources with other facilitators and trainers since learning about you a few years ago. Thanks for continuing to be a gre
at resource. Not everyone has easy access to great “manipulatives” in their area.